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This may be the most important article ever written on how to revive the faith in America.

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Thank you so much for posting this! And to you, Mr. Warfield, for the scholarship. It is beyond helpful. Bless you both’

The analysis rings very true, said as a child of the deeply Catholic Long Island City/Sunnyside/Woodside multi-ethnic neighborhood of Queens, NYC, in the 50s/early 60’s with three thriving parishes and three schools all within walking distance. We didn’t need text messages. Somehow within nanoseconds what happened on one edge of the community was instantly known on the other. It was like magic. But it wasn’t. It was us, joined by a common Faith, a very social (and fun!) multi-generational network, and with it a large dollop of everyday mutual accountability and help one-to-another. One defined oneself by one’s parish: St. Ray’s (Raphael), Q of A (Queen of Angels), and St. T’s (Theresa of Avila). Just a tad further out in Woodside but equally involved by friendship and schooling was another parish, St. Seb’s (Sebastian). They had a massive youth center we all used, and which formed many a scholar, sportsman and community person. It was precisely the integration of life on all parameters that made us truly Catholic. It was the norm across the area to have our Church Father(s) to Sunday dinner on rotating basis. The parishes were the hub of all life. The Moms had rotating baby groups where every woman had a day a week all ‘hers’ knowing the kids were having a ball and their homework was getting done. The Dads had an easy mutual vigilance of global protection knowing their kids could be out from 8 am to dusk on a summer day without a worry. The single rule was “Be home before the streetlights go on.”

Those parish nicknames were not irreverence!! They were precisely the opposite. Born of a fondness and love and familiarity that was palpable. Liturgy was sacrosanct. But there was an immediacy to it that completely enveloped one. It was not a set-apart with the rules of decorum, dress, role and so on seen as rigid markers of who was in and who was out. It was an all-in Communion of Saints thing with breathtaking exceptions at times that reinforced in a mystical way the graced path to Theosis that we ‘got’ as kids before we knew the word existed. Seeing the nuptial couple kneel in the sanctuary inside the altar rail was one. Seeing one’s Mom kneel at the foot of the Altar for the now-lost Churching ceremony after she’d had the time to recover from childbirth was another. There were many of these deeply moving indications of how precious we were in God’s eyes. Wholly vertical. Wholly horizontal. All at once.

It was the truest of communities. It was so Catholic in its simple and global joy that I remember driving w the family on a Sunday afternoon and Mom pointing out a public school as we passed. And we kids had a bit of pity for those kids. Because we knew what we had in that experiential way deeper than words. “Those poor publics” was what we said. Not in derision. In sadness for them.

I’d add the Amish to those which still cohere and thrive because community and proximity come first.

I remember when their big question and debated at the highest levels of authority was whether in-line skates could be used by their youth. Not so much for recreation as for transportation. For boys and for girls.

We all know the Amish car ban. This skates’ debate circled on the same concern: does distance dilute community?

Ultimately the skates were allowed. It was reasoned that a bit more range would increase the marriage and friendship pool, while the sheer exhaustion of the body would still prevent the distance from getting far out enough to fray the community. Very common sense.

I’d add only one more thought here: there’s a reason that the subset of Amish romance literature is explosive. And it’s not just costume or ‘otherness.’ It’s the Church as communal: the rotating house church gatherings, the barn raising, the behavioral standards that guardrail but don’t repress natural longing, and most of all the sense of belonging in one’s bone marrow, laced through the stories, and there to catch you over against all of life’s challenges, that define the genre.

We had it. We lost it. We gave it away. We can get it back.

Please read the 1949 book “This Perverse Generation” by Carol Jackson Robinson as regards this topic. Yes, the changes started pre-VII. Chapter 2, “The Atrophy of the Parish” alone is worth the price of admission. This slim book is a compilation of CHR essays. She wrote very widely. Sometimes under the pseudonym Peter Michaels. She was also a founder and editor of the underground Catholic journal “Integrity”.

Underground partly because she was diagnosing the real reasons for decline and the antidotes for it very early.

Arouca Press is central in recovering, collating and republishing her Collected Works.

Thanks to them! Don’t miss her incisive brilliance.

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